We explore what resources are available to church leaders and members alike through the Church, North Star International, and the Voices of Hope Project. Also how to help someone reconcile same-sex feelings with the doctrines of a family-centric church and what to say (and what not to say) to someone who experiences SSA, or to a family member of someone who does. Lastly, we discuss how to create a loving, safe, and compassionate environment in your congregation for those who experience SSA.